What You Get free
You won't pay anything until we've profiled you, matched you and you've verified that there's mutual interest in beginning email contact. If you upload a photo then you will be able to see the photos of your matches before you pay (to make it a fair trade for the other person). Once we've verified that your personalities are likely to spark romantic chemistry and you've seen each other's photos, read each other's profiles and exchanged "winks" to verify that you're both interested in talking, you can contact as many matches as you'd like for one month for just $9.99.
Here is a short description of the benefits you'll receive from eChemistry:
You don't pay a penny until you want to start writing personal emails to your matches. If there's a photo or profile which catches your eye and you've exchanged free winks to be sure you're both interested then you can write personal emails to as many matches as you'd like for a whole month for only $9.99.
Quality, not Quantity
You can find a higher quantity of matches elsewhere, but if you're looking for that one special match, no one puts as much quality care, time and meticulous individual attention into finding you someone just right as we do. Our system doesn't match on longevity of relationships, we match on the presence of lasting romantic chemistry in long term marriages. This means that you won't be sent matches very frequently, but when one does come you'll know that it's someone who was chosen so carefully that it's definitely worth your time to read their profile, look at their picture and decide whether you're interested.
Similarities and Differences
Romantic chemistry has just as much to do with having complimentary strengths as having similar communication styles. This wasn't our "decision," it's the reality of what we found when we analyzed high chemistry long-term married couples. You will not be matched with someone who is exactly like you (although that would be a very interesting experiment, you may be given the option of participating in a trial with that premise at some point in the future). The important thing to understand is that we're not imposing our decisions of what should be important in a relationship, we've simply experimented again and again over 8 years and isolated factors that have proven to be vital and separated them from other factors that have traditionally been thought of as important but which didn't show any positive correlation in reality. What has stood true over time is that people who have certain complimentary strengths are attracted to each other as long as they have other specific communication traits in common. All of your matches will be specifically chosen for you based on matching the pattern of specific similarities and specific differences from our extensive research.
Why So Much For So Little?
We've found such a convincing pattern of traits that it would seem almost
immoral to make this expensive when it has such potential to make a gigantic positive difference in the world.
We are a SWAT team of love scientists who are passionate about figuring out why people feel chemistry. Our research has
uncovered some phenomenal results, and it's incredibly fulfilling for us to see that hard work paying off with new
high chemistry couples. We don't do this for the money. We only charge to cover part of the cost of the computers
and bandwidth which make this site possible. What we really want is to know that our research makes a difference.
And this website not only delivers in that regard, but it also provides us with massive amounts of real-time data in the form of
date reports which help us continue our research on the finer and finer details of romantic chemistry. On top of that, we can
apply new breakthroughs to the dating population almost instantly by updating the website models, which makes this work even more exciting and dynamic.
We hope that since you know you're getting
a deal that you'll be especially compelled to fill out a Date Report after meeting your matches. You go out and find true love,
let us worry about keeping the website financed.
eChemistry's Unparalleled Privacy Protection
eChemistry gives you unparalleled privacy protection as a member. First, only your individually selected matches will ever see your profile. A random visitor to the site could never find your profile by using the "search" features which are available on virtually every other matchmaking site. We have no "search" feature to protect your profile from being read by anyone who doesn't match you. At all times you can see the people who can see your profile, because they are on your match lists, and if you delete anyone on your list they are no longer able to see your profile, giving you complete control over your information. On top of that, your photo is only shown to people on your match list who also have photos posted (unless they are a paying member). If you find a match you like and begin email communication, we provide all your communication tools right here on our site so that your identity is protected. There is no chance that your email program will attach a signature to the end of your note, or that you might inadvertently include email-header information which could give away your personal contact address because your communication never originates in your home emailbox, you send it directly from our website (we make it simple, we hope you'll communicate so we've made it easy and obvious).
The gigantic difference this system offers from traditional dating is that you can arrange a date and meet them in person and never have given out any personally identifying information such as your phone number, address, last name or place of employment. eChemistry protocol is that dates are arranged in public places using our privacy protecting system until you've gotten to know each other well enough to establish a level of comfort and trust where you're willing to give out your information. But until you decide that you're ready, you always have the safety net of hitting the "delete match" button and that person will never be able to contact you or view your profile again.
Your Participation Makes a Difference
Also, by becoming an eChemistry member, going on even just one date and reporting back, you're helping further research into romantic chemistry. Imagine what the world would be like if there was even a 1% increase in the number of marriages based on romantic chemistry which lasted. In the US alone that would equal over 1 million better marriages. We think we've already found patterns which will have a much bigger impact than that, but we're at the point in our research where we need lots of people to go on lots of dates in order to fine tune what we've got and further investigate some of the more obscure personality systems (it's obscure systems that made the biggest difference so far). So even if your one date isn't a success, it still helps the rest of humanity by providing more data for further research.
Do your own research. Read through our background to see the unparalleled research and development which has been built into this site. Read through our mission statement to understand why we're doing what we're doing and where our research is leading. Then take the first step and take our cutting edge, highly trained 224 question personality profile and add a the very best options to your array of dating choices.
